What To Do When You’re Feeling Stuck

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The ideas are flowing so fast it’s hard for your pen to keep up with your brain. You are on fire for this idea and you dive right into the who, what, where and how of it all.  

But now those brilliant ideas are mocking you. Needy little snippets sketched out, spilled all over your desk, begging to be pieced together. And you’ve got nothing. 

You know you are meant to bring this to life. Yet, you’re stuck. To be clear, this isn’t about execution. You can execute! No, you’re struggling with the finishing touches of bringing it all together.  

Creative block is real, you rationalize.  

You tell yourself you’re not ready. You need more data, more input. 

Yes, sometimes those things are true, but this is not one of those times and you know it. From that first flash of inspiration you’ve known exactly how to make this happen. 

You’re not stuck. 

You’re scared. 

Scared of being you. Scared of being right. Scared of taking your spot at the table. 

Think back to your original spark of inspiration. Remember that flutter in your stomach? Or maybe it was a whispered “uh-huh” with an assured nod of your head? In that moment, before you started second guessing yourself, you knew. Your body knew. Trust that. 

This is Sacred Fear – the teetering between deep knowing and self-doubt. She appears every time you’re on the verge of answering the call of your soul. And while it’s tempting to surrender to the safety of this limbo land of inaction, I’m reminded of Nelson Mandela’s words, “There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” 

Do you want to settle? I didn’t think so. 

Here are some ideas for rising beyond the doubts. 

Embrace the Fear. Stop trying to out-brave it. As trite as it sounds, you need to accept Sacred Fear. Stephen Pressfield calls it her Resistance. She’s an abiding companion to passion, to daring, to rising and when she shows up you know you’re on the right path. Trust her. 

Reflect. Think back to your original spark of inspiration. Remember that flutter in your stomach? Or maybe it was a whispered “uh-huh” with an assured nod of your head? In that moment, before you started second guessing yourself, you knew. Your body knew. Trust that. 

Get Honest. Stop playing dumb. You know exactly what needs to be done. Trust yourself. 

This is not a one-and-done exercise. Expect to be back here often, as often as you dare to take bold new steps. But you’ve got this. 

You know exactly what to do. You’ve known all along. 

We’ve been waiting for you. 


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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Denise Cornell felt the calling of her soul and was brave enough to answer. And now she lives in the land of creative sovereignty. You’re most likely to find her outdoors.  

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